Emily and Aleja, thank you for your good words, but I don’t think it will work with me. Let me try and answer couchguy who asked
Too much desire of control, governed by fear. Two examples: this thread (I know, it will confuse some of you), and this one:
where, for me, the issue was unnecessarily raised for hypothetical sexual worries.
I can probably find others, but since I leave… This type of question was also discussed here:
The couch surfing spirit, for me, is not to try and prevent the negative, but to try and encourage the positive.
Of course, these are just discussions and the end result may not be that controlling. But I don’t feel comfortable at the moment. I might come back in a couple of years when you have gone beyond the beta phase.